kairo-koutureee:

provoc-hoe-tive:

raindropirwin:

peachglitch:

•if he disrespects his mom
•if he disrespects blue collar workers
•if he doesn’t tip or leaves loose pennies
•if he is mean to animals
•if he doesn’t touch you in public
•if he won’t tell his friends about you
•if he says “I’ve never been with a ____ girl before.”
•if he won’t address his female friends by name instead just calls them “a friend”
•if all his exes “are psycho”
•if he’s never worked a day in his life
•if he chooses a drug over spending time with you
•if he disagrees with feminism
•if he’s white and he throws around the N word
•if he isn’t proud of what you do
•if he makes rape jokes
•if you tell him you haven’t shaved down there and he quickly changes his mind about giving you oral
•if he chooses the music or movies without asking what you think
•if he voluntarily shows up late to pick you up
•if you catch yourself googling “what is an abusive relationship?”

some girls need to hear this

• If they do not care about your feelings/opinion
• If you express discontent with their actions and they still do the SAME thing
• If they are not willing to talk it out
• If they put their hands on you
• If they force you into things you do not want to do
• If they try to tell you how you feel
• If they say you’re too ‘complicated’ ‘complex’ or ‘difficult’- when all you want is to work the relationship out
• If they feel that you’re even slightly less than them
• If their friends make you uncomfortable and they do not do a thing about it
• If their relationship with another ‘friend’ makes you uncomfortable and they do not act productively on it
• If you feel extreme discontent, sadness, or anger in a relationship and they do not care
LEAVE THEM
YOU DESERVE BETTER

National Domestic Violence Hotline#:
1-800-799-7233

Deaf National Domestic Violence Hotline IM or Email:
deafhelp@thehotline.org

“"Video Phone (Mon-Fri 9am-5pm):
1-855-812-1001

man except for two bullet points this described exactly my last relationship

(Source: ginmother, via kushandwizdom)

penicillium-pusher:

I think it’s hilarious when people tell me I’m laid back because I’ve pretty much been screaming nonstop in my head since like fifth grade

(via packingplastic)